Sometimes life just doesn't seem fair.I hate that when I tell people I'm going to visit my parents I have to go to the cemetery. No one should have to do this.
My parents shouldn't be dead. They weren't old enough to die. Well at least in my books.
They should of lived to be in their 90's like my grandparents.
Instead God had other plans. Plans that sometime I just don't understand why?
My Dad died of a heart attack, he was 48 years old. I was 17 and it hurt not to have him in my adult life.
My Mom was healty, so we thought. She was 70 and so full of life.
When ever I get ready for a hundred I go to visit my parents. I know I don't have to, but it makes me feel better. I do it out of love, and respect.
I take my parents with me on each of my journeys.
God had other plans for them, so I must accept it. But it's hard.
My Mom was alive for my first 3 HURT 100's. And planned on going to HURT #4 with me but she passed away before then.
As I head out on the trails Saturday I can't predict what will happen. One thing I do know is my Parents, in Angel form will be by my side, guiding me to the finish line Sunday afternoon.
Friends please send me positive vibes.
Also make sure you tell your parents you love them.
I have no regrets my parents knew I loved them.
18 comments:
Catra-
I wish I could give you a big hug girl! I've never really lost anyone that close to me except my cat but I know it wouldn't be a very good feeling! Just keep your chin up and keep moving foward with every step ;)
I also want to send you some postive vibes for Hawaii! Good luck and have fun!
Much Love Sista!
Whitney
Catra
That was such a beautiful and loving post. Your life is a blessing to all those around you; and those far away like me. I will be up early on the trails of Delaware, thinking of you at HURT, and sending every positive thought/vibe my little soul can muster.
You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Happy Days;
john :)
Positive vibes for your race, Catra. It is wonderful that you honor your parents like you do; it keeps them alive.
Renee
So many things you post hit home to a lot of people. I personally have lurked, laughed, and cried at the wide variety of things I have read. Both of your parents are, no doubt, proud of the woman you have become. Your obvious strength is inspiring and encourages others to better themselves.
Go kick some bootie at HURT!
sr in tx
Big hug sent your way from downtown Chicago. I'll trot through my little 10 mile run on the lakefront this weekend and send a thought and prayer or two your way.
Best of everything to you.
Sam
GOD Bless You Catra on your HURT event this weekend...
Great Post and yes your Parents will be with YOU every STEP!!
(((((Big HUGS)))))))
Catra,
My best to you this weekend at HURT! I'm sure your parents spirit will be with you each and every step of the way. You're such an inspiration, Catra!
Take care and be safe!
Kelly
Positive vibes just for you....
we will run PCT for them and kick ass the record!!!!!
less 80 days!!!!!
love ya girl
ju
Catra, I lost my father at 18--it was scary trying to become an adult without that influence. I'm still fairly new to ultrarunning but I know how it can be very soothing to the soul. I'm wishing you all the best at HURT--you've been a huge inspiration for me. Hoping you have an incredible time--God Bless.
I'm definitely thinking about ya...Good luck in the HURT!!!
Hey, I heard about you from Brett at Zentri. Have a great run.
So sorry!
Catra-
Beautiful post. You know they will be looking down upon you at HURT and making every step WITH you! Positive vibes are all around you. Kick some butt girl!!
~kim
Beautifully said. They'll be there.
All the vibes to you, darling.
Catra,
That was a really beautiful post and a good reminder to tell our parents we love them! All my best to you at HURT this weekend!
Nice post that makes you really think. I know it did me...I just got news today that my dad has 1 to 8 months to live. Granted he didn't die young but it is still very difficult to deal with.
Lance
Beautiful post Catra- thanks for sharing.
Have an excellent race- positive vibes headed your way!!
Catra, awesome post and I share your pain. I too have to visit my parents either in my dreams or at the cemetery. In every hundred I've done I feel my Mon's with me and at the finish of these awesome events I get misty eyed think I wish I could hug them as I cross the finish.
Godspeed in Hawaii, you love this race and your well trained. Go kick so butt ad BTW I love your new tattoo.
Squirrel
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